According to a priest in his sermon, we are not happy when we don’t love. He based his idea on the fact that when someone loves, things would look different in that person’s eyes. A person that loves is happy being with the one he/she loves even if he/she would have to wait longer. When asked if that person is hungry and given that that person is in love, that person would not mind eating coz that person feels no need to eat. Even though quite short in cash, but for the person he/she loves he/she wants the best for that person. Love shortens our pessimism and widens our horizon. Love gives us reason to smile each day and be happy of what we already have and soon to have 
Archive for Love
When we are not happy?
its good to love
I know its really good to love. Although they say its a painful thing, but they can’t deny that love made their lives more interesting and meaningful. Being able to carry something for the one you love makes the weight meaningless. Though you not interested by topic but you enjoy the conversation because your listening to voice of the person. Just by holding that person close to you, it makes that moment breathtaking. You never get tired of being with the person you love. Time goes by fast and you wished your moment together would last longer. You might think I am quite shallow on how I see this whole thing about love but let me say this to you, love is such an extraordinary feeling that for an ordinay guy like me it showed me , that with this feeling, fears, anxieties, ironies and odds would stumbled down at my feet.
Rules of Love
Note: A friend of mind texted me this message.. I just wanna share it. I got a few comments and I hope you post your’s too..
Rules of L.o.V.e :
1.) Never kiss when you are not committed.
comment : well most people treat kissing as a welcoming gesture other than showing intimacy. I can say is…. never kiss kung wala kai toothbrush ok? HUman courtesy lang..
2.) Never expect, just Hope
comment: Just hope? Well be practical sad oi.. dont just hope but do something.
3.) Never love a taken man or woman
comment: the word “taken” is so vague and ambiguous. Does it mean that it is married?
4.) Never fall for a friend
comment: Of the ten rules of love I receive from text msgs, all have this –> never fall for a friend. Why? does love need to be played safe? And besides, there are circumstances that this dont apply. And 6 out of ten boy-girl-friendship ended in marriage.
5.) Don’t Fool Yourself
comment: What love teaches us is the fact that though reality sucks, reality is still reality. Embracing love is embracing reality.
ignoring someone
“why ignoring this person doesn’t upset me?” hehe.. i have this weird question on my mind yesterday. A friend of mine answered that though that person is a friend, ignoring did not hurt its because of the reason why I am ignoring that person. She added that if that situation or scenario that happen between that person and me would fall between us, I might or she might feel the same as I am feeling. Well, she was right into saying those things. Perhaps, one might consider that ignoring someone is sometimes one of our best possible solution to problems that seemed hopeless into solving it Its not running away or not facing the problem between the 2 individuals but rather by providing space and less interaction might create a better understanding on how the things had happened. Well, I am glad that somehow things turned out the way I wanted to be… ignoring that someone until things would settle down between us.
on love, I know
They say love is immeasurable and that no scale that exists in this world that could bound the greatness and mysteries of love. All we could do is deal with approximations which itself are very far from what love is.
Love is a thing that we cant mold into our own perspective. Rather, it is the only thing that exists in this world that is above order and reason that defines its nature beyond our own understanding.
being trapped in a relationship
his is not an unusual problem. A lot of early couples are experiencing this kind of issue. Trapped in the sense that the person in that relationship feels no future in their relationship. But he/she cant give up that person because his/her partner still holds on to them. And the partner is still believing that they can still make it.
It really sucks to be into something that is not working well. Honestly and open communication between partners really helps . The hardest part is taking the risk by deciding to let go and holding on to the decision for the better good. Ignoring wont drive this away cause a time will come that it would be a lot harder to fix the problem.
A lot of people experiencing this thinks that letting go or forcing their other partner to break their relationship is being cruel to their partner. Specially when they see that their partner is trying his/her best in holding on.
But this is not the case, it doesn’t mean that if the other one is trying to make ends meet in your relationship. Then everything would turned out to be fine. THe issue here is that you not growing as a couple if one ignores the issue because it would be cruelty or wrong and the other one is covering it up with efforts.
Its hard specially if you have been together for quite a long time and had beaten a lot of odds together. And it would a sad thing to admit to yourselves that your not growing close but farther apart. Admittance that you had this issue, honesty on speaking, listening, and had a courage to decide are the things you should put in mind.
A kiss that feels right
Ever since the ancient times, kiss has been one of the best way to show affection or respect to someone. A touching of one person’s lips to another place that somehow evolved through time and many kinds were born from it. But aside from that, kissing has been one of the ways to find a suitable partner.We sometimes came across to a lot of people who considered kissing someone a way to determine if that person was right for them. A lot also claimed that kissing someone who is really meant for you feels different or somewhat special compared to kissing other people. They call it “the spark”. Funny it seems that some rely on this spark to find the perfect one. Would a kiss be enough to decide if you are meant to be? Many would say “Yes”. But a few would be skeptical about it. But me, I don’t totally disagree with the whole thing but may add a few details. When you find someone or if you’re with someone meant for you, I beg not to be melodramatically about it, everything would feel right. Even the slightest breath of air, the sound, the moment, everything would feel right. And these things do not go one way. It is not only the kiss that would feel right when your with the one you love… but everything… would feel right.
the Meaning of Living
I was just some ordinary guy who loves to surf the net, play chess, play Computer Games, watch animes and read stuffs. Life has been so simple to me. I got few friends but did not wished to be attached to them. I believe that as long as I keep my distance to them, the less pain they can inflict on me when time comes. But then, just out of the blue, she came. Unlike in the movies that there was some kind of an aura at first look, everything between us has been so casual. My resolve was certain at those time. But then, like what has always been said “You can never tell..”, strange things happened to me. I just cant exactly pin-point when did it really start, but this feeling is something greater than anything I have felt before. I know how scared I am, or how insecure I am, or how negative I am. But just as she holds my hand and bare that smile on her face, all the negativism in my mind just fades away. And all I can think is doing my best for her. I dont know why I was compelled to her. Maybe, just maybe, because I felt warm with her. I felt strength flowing into my veins everytime I see her smile. I never thought life could be this much meaningful to me just by seating with her even for a while. I was so selfish to wish that I could stop those time and be with her forever. But unlike fairytales with happy ending, it did not came to a good end. Because soon I realized that somehow I fell for a dream. She was just someone that was not part of my reality. Everything that has been happening was just out of my own imagination. I know that in that dream, I was real, she is real and we both felt thesame for each other. All that left in me, is the longing that I could have her back. She left with my heart. And I couldnt live just of the thought that all was just a dream for somehow deep within me it was most real thing I’ve ever been in my whole life. And she’s been the only girl that gives me the meaning of living…..
Wakarinai
someone asked me, why i liked her these much? All i can reply is a face of “I dont know”. I dont pretend that its “i dont know”, it is really. I mean I know yet I can’t put into Leyman’s Term. I can’t communicate clearly what my heart wants them to know. And came another follow-up question, “Is it love?” and again all i can answer is an “i dont know again”. I just tell them these things I felt. And I let them judge from it. These are the following: (1) When I touch her hand, I pray she wont let go ; (2) When she’s sad, I tried to make her smile; (3) When we had a moment together, I hope that moment wont last; (4) When she’s with me, all i could wished is her to stay… that’s all. Well, then if you were to decide, is it love? Love or not Love, it changed me and I dont know how but it did. Though, my vision of my life became so messed up because of this feeling. Yet I know deep inside my heart, it was worth a try.
….wala ko nakauyon… (bisaya)
ug sadihang guisapot ko sa akong nahibalu-an.. Naa diay na-iritate nako? sa maigo lang.. irritating diay? saunz.. maypa ako ning guibuhat sa una irratating man diay.. mild-mild nah gali ni.. Sige.. kay irritating man.. paugatay tah… well, i wont lose anything. And take note, its not my problem if you cant handle my actions. And its fun I am this way. A lot of things came into view.. Actually, there are a lot of things I missed cause I am not what I am now. Saunz.. weLL, I am happy too bad they are not. Well, i hate to say this but if you hate me the way I am now, FUCK off.. i wont get in your way granted you wont get into mine. Finally, i thought they were with me since they were all around me but their true colors came into view and they showed me that we were just around me and only from there.. 
.. I thank God for I learn to be own my own, learning life my way and revealing the colors that surround me.. Padayun tah.. Paugatay tah.. And PS.. to the person nga na-irritate nako, keep it to your self.. and usa pasad I woNT hANG OUT to PIPOL I dont LIKE…
